Hi Friends-
I know, I know, I've been terrible at updating this blog. I received an email from a friend this morning encouraging me to continue and I will try, I promise.
Katya continues to acclimate. As her English improves, she is able to share more of her life experiences in Russia and also express her feelings more clearly. Some of the stories of her life previous to becoming a part of our family have broken our hearts and have encouraged us to investigate ways to help her cope. We have found a world-renowned expert in our community on post-institutionalized children so Katya will be under his care for the foreseeable future. If you'd like to visit his webiste it is:www.drfederici.com. I believe he will help Katya with some of her childhood traumas that have scarred her deeply. Katya's coping skills have improved greatly though. Previously, when she became angry her method of coping was 'fight and flight'. Now, she has learned to calm herself down and express her anger and confusion. This is a major milestone. Homework is a daily struggle because she has no concept of the importance of education, self-discipline and academic success. At the orphanage, I believe survival topped the list and education was a low priority.
If she thinks Fred and I are angry with her she falls apart but she is learning that we love her regardless. With the help of Dr. Federici we will be victorious in overcoming her insecurity! She is becoming more affectionate so I know we are breaking down the barriers.
Katya is loving soccer! She is quite an athlete and seems to excel in any sport she tries. Tennis, basketball, softball, etc. We just have to figure out the sport she likes best and concentrate on that! The Saturday morning 9 AM games 40 miles away are my personal favorite....NOT! I confess I have prayed for rain the night before a game because I am so exhausted from the March of Dimes walks that have occurred the last two Sundays. It makes for a long week when you work on weekends.
On October 12th, 2007 I blogged about my little cousin Ryan's battle with cancer. I am sad to report that he passed away last night after a very courageous battle with this hideous disease. Please put Jeff, Melinda and Tyler Hutchinson in your prayers as they come to terms with Ryan's passing. It is a sad day in our family.
Thanks for checking in and I'll post soon.
