Friday, November 30, 2007

Making Contacts at the Russian Embassy



I would like to become more proactive in my pursuit to help orphans in Russia. Last night I attended a reception at the Russian Embassy in Washington, DC with the Russian Ambassador to the United States and Representative Chris Smith (R- New Jersey). Also in attendance was Princess Alexis Obolensky, a member of a Russian emigre family. My goal is to meet others who are helping Russian orphans in creative ways and learn from their experiences. I met an incredibly brave physician, Dr. Juliette Ingel, who after visiting Russia in the early nineties, came home, sold her lucrative medical practice and moved to Russia to help children abandoned or orphaned at birth. Her organization, MiraMed, provides humanitarian aid to orphanages in the Moscow region. When Dr. Ingel learned of the recruitment of young girls from the orphanages into prostitution rings operating in Eastern Europe, she began a program of education directed at at-risk adolescent girls in orphanages. In 1998, she became aware of the growing and widespread practice of trafficking orphanage girls into sexual slavery overseas, so she developed a proposal to begin an anti-sexual trafficking education campaign for highest risk girls in the rural regions of the Russian Federation. WOW! She is my shero. I also met the founder of Firefly, an international organization working to close orphanages in Russia by helping local governments develop programs that will keep children in their birth families. Getting one child out of an orphanage is easy to imagine, but getting one million out and ending the use of institutions is far more complex. Many countries in the world, including the United States, have moved from institutions to community care, and hopefully Russia will promote foster care and eventually close their over-crowded and under-funded orphanages throughout the country. In Russia, there are up to 300 children of various ages living under the same roof. The result of such circumstances can be horrific. The suicide rates of orphans released at 18 is shocking, and the rate of prostitution is also very disturbing. This year, orphanages receive only 22 rubles per child a day, only eight rubles of which is used to buy food. There are about 25 rubles to the dollar. Surely there is more we can do as caring, concerned human beings. As I heard over and over again last night, all children smile in the same language. Hopefully the Russian Orphanage Project can bring more smiles to the faces of the beautiful children of Russia in 2008.

Wednesday, November 28, 2007

Basketball Fever!



Katya LOVES basketball! She is on a girl's team at her elementary school and they just started practicing. She came home Monday night so excited. Apparently she made seven out of ten shots so the coach was very encouraged. We were worried she wouldn't understand offense, defense, traveling, etc. but the coach said she'll figure it out quickly. It is so wonderful to see her happy and excited about her new life here!

Monday, November 26, 2007

Back to the grind...




We had a wonderful Thanksgiving in North Carolina with our family. Katya ate two turkey legs but little else from the buffet line! I thought for sure she would like the mashed potatoes but she grimaced when she tried a bite! Oh well, she eats constantly so I don't have to worry about her nutrition.

Katya's English continues to get better by the day. We rarely use the translator, and we can usually find a way to convey our thoughts and feelings. Take for instance the photo above. She was quite tired of me photographing her, hence the dirty look! Those teenage looks are universal, aren't they! She can roll her eyes with the best of em'! She is a master at shrugging and sighing too! Whining is a universal language, so no problems there! She's a joy though, and we are so blessed to have her in our family.

Tuesday, November 20, 2007

Over the river and through the woods to Auntie's house we go...


We are off in a little while to conquer the first half of our journey to Pinehurst, North Carolina. We are waiting for the traffic to subside a little, which might be a foolish notion! We shall see...

We are so excited for Katya to experience her first Thanksgiving, and to meet her grandmother and grandfather for the first time. Katya can't wait to meet her Babushka and Dadushka, or Granny and Pop as they like to be called! My parents drove up from Florida to Pinehurst so we could have a mini-family reunion at my Aunt Sheila's house. We are really looking forward to seeing everyone and being together. Katya already told me she doesn't like "big chicken" or turkey as we know it! I'm sure there will be enough side dishes to keep her happy for days!

Be safe and well and have a Happy Thanksgiving!

Sunday, November 18, 2007

Navy Ball 1982 - Navy Ball 2007




We received a photo from my sister tonight of her daughter Suzanne attending the 2007 Navy Ball. She was escorted by her friend who is Navy ROTC at The University of Southern California. Twenty five years ago Fred and I attended a Navy Ball when he was ROTC at the University of Florida. I showed Katya the photo of her Papa and me at the Navy Ball and I thought she was going to lose her dinner due to her fits of laughter! She thought we were the funniest looking people she has ever seen! Granted my make-up is a little much, but really, are we so ridiculous looking? Evidently she thinks so!

Wednesday, November 14, 2007

How sweet she is...



Katya continues to florish! School is going well, or I should say Katya loves school. She is learning English, but that could just be assimilation or the tutor. It's difficult to say how much she is learning in sixth grade versus home, but she is learning. I have a feeling the school could be doing a better job, but the truth is there are two ESL teachers and 97 ESL students, most of whom are Korean. My sister mentioned hiring an educational advocate for Katya, because it is their job to know what services Katya is entitled to and are very effective in getting their clients these services quickly. Sounds like a great idea, but some of the advocates are attorneys who charge $300 - $350 an hour. Yikes! We supposedly live in an area with one of the finest school systems in the United States, but after 10 years of being in the area I am less than impressed. I will have to start being a better "squeaky wheel" so Katya will receive the finest education available to her.

Monday, November 12, 2007

Home Again, Home Again, Jiggity-Jig!



I came home today from my twice yearly scrapbooking escape. I was so anxious to see Katya, and Fred too of course! Katya had a great time with her Papa while I was gone seeing a movie, touring the Smithsonian Natural History Museum and several other fun adventures. She spent several hours with Katie on Saturday while Fred helped out some friends with a home repair project. It was fun to get away but I was constantly thinking of my family back home!

Saturday, November 10, 2007

I miss Katya!

Twice a year, a group of seven friends and I rent a home on Lake Anna and scrapbook for four days. This is that weekend! I left Thursday morning and will return home Monday afternoon. I wondered how I would do being away from Katya for four days, and I confess it hasn't been easy so far! It didn't help that we started out watching Anne of Green Gables, a story about an orphan girl who was adopted by a wonderful brother and sister in Canada! I just called home and talked to Katya. She asked me if I was coming home tomorrow... and I said no....and she said YES! Fred and Katie have a weekend of wonderful activites planned and I know she is having a great time but I still want to jump in the car and go home! If I didn't have two scrapbooks that I've been promising to my aunt and sister I'd probably go home today!! THIS IS HARD!!

Monday, November 5, 2007

No School Blues



Today and tomorrow are teacher work/conference days, which means there is no school for Katya. I had a conference with Katya's teachers today and learned that she has some behavioral issues she needs to work on. Together with her teachers we came up with an action/consequence chart that worked at home, so let's hope it works at school! Because she doesn't have the language skills to get the attention she desires, she is using other methods such as tickling, poking and distracting the other children. Hopefully when she has command of the English language she will cease these behaviors in favor of actual words!
Let's hope!

Sunday, November 4, 2007

Auction Results



We grossed $10,050 last night! It was a lot of work but great fun too. I could not have pulled it off without the help of my wonderful friends who were with me every step of the way!

We are driving down to Randolph-Macon College to hear Steven sing today. He is a member of the Randolph-Macon Chamber Singers and they are performing Gabriel Fauré’s Requiem. We are really looking forward to the performance. I think I'll sleep the whole way down to Ashland today!

Friday, November 2, 2007

The Auction is tomorrow!

The auction is tomorrow! We have the social hall set up and we are ready to go! Some of the food is prepared and we will finish cooking everything tomorrow afternoon. I ended up with 104 items/services, down from last year but I fully expected that. I haven't had the time I invested in the auction last year but I will make up for it next year! I plan on starting on the 2008 auction/dinner in March so I anticipate the largest revenue ever! My goal for next year is $20,000! Whatever we make this year will help the orphanage so I can't worry about it.

Katya had a wonderful time at her new friend's house. She came home at 9 PM exhausted and wanted to go to bed almost immediately! Tomorrow will be difficult for her because we have a full day and evening at the church ahead of us. Hopefully we'll find enough jobs to keep her busy.

I won't post tomorrow but I'll let you know Sunday how we faired. Keep us in your prayers!

Thursday, November 1, 2007

This photo says it all!



You can guess what I've been doing lately judging by the above photograph! The Russian Orphanage Project Auction and Dinner is Saturday night, so things at the Buoni household are a little....shall I say....stressed. Luckily Katya will be going home with a friend tomorrow from school so she doesn't have to suffer through the auction set up and food prep tomorrow! The next 48 hours are sure to be incredibly busy and hectic, but our goal is to raise enough money to help Podolsk Orphanage out in a big way this year, even though a team from my church is not traveling to Russia in December. If you are local and reading this, PLEASE COME to our auction and dinner!!